Ok Cupid rant
Why can’t I be looking for casual sex and allowed to contact you? How do you conclude that, because casual sex is one thing I would consider…that that is my primary motivation of contacting you? Who are you to fucking judge me? Tell me that I’m not allowed to contact you because I’m willing to accept a situation where I don’t have to: get to know “her” friends, not obliged to accompany “her” to see shitty shows/be an accountrement while “she” shops for clothes/be stuck eating shitty overpriced take out food watching a crappy movie.
How do you conclude that, because casual sex is one thing I would consider…that that is my primary motivation of contacting you?
That is one shortcoming of OKC as I see it. That is, that they don’t make everyone agree to a certain definition of terms. They just expect us to all have a similar definition for ourselves. What is casual sex and what is so bad about it? I’ll play Devil’s Advocate for a bit. A guy fucks you occasionally, probably only when he’s really horny, begrudgingly spends the night, and is gone before you even wake up. Okay, how do you conclude that is what I, or just any given guy, would do? Though I’ll admit, I don’t understand most male behavior on online dating sites. I assume most of them just message everyone that looks decent, regardless of similar interests. I know alot of them think giving awards will get girls to start talking to them. I think it makes them look like pussies personally.
I know alot of them think giving awards will get girls to start talking to them. I think it makes them look like pussies personally.
And this is coming from a guy who one of my exes friend thought I might be gay until she found out we did it. Oh and I know of one guy in particular, that copy/pastes the exact same message with his “eye candy” award. I just wanna kick him in the balls. Since I’m pretty sure he will feel no pain [via not having any there to begin with]. Go ahead, try to come back at me from that. Recently some guy was pounding anothers face in at my favorite dance bar. Guess who restrained the attacker? Balls check complete, but thanks for playin.
But somehow I get the feeling that being an annoying dickhead like so many men on there is one of the only ways to utilize OKC to get sex on the reg. And probably a lot don’t say they’re looking for casual sex when indeed they are. Just like people acting enthusiastic during a job interview for a job they know they think sucks. And pretending like they’re so goddamn happy to be at work everyday [via shit eating grin and superficial convo]. Why is deceipt the cornerstone of the whole goddamn world?
Why is deceipt the cornerstone of the whole goddamn world?
Damnit, all I wanted to do was tell you how funny those sunglasses you’re wearing are, and that I lol’d when I saw them.
